How to tell your parents you are dating a white girl

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Home […] Forums Life and style Relationships. I am a brown guy and my parents won't accept my white girlfriend? Confused about Clearing? Go to first unread. Skip to :. Anonymous 1. Report Thread starter 11 months ago 1. I am in need of some urgent advice Bit of background: I am 25, born and raised in the UK, recently graduated doctor. My parents are from India and I have been brought up in a traditional strict Indian household. I have been dating a white girl for around 2. I plan on settling down with her and marrying her in the near future. The problem lies with my parents A couple of months into the relationship I reluctantly told my mum about my gf and as expected, she was really upset and acted as though I betrayed her and the whole family.

She basically told me to break up with my gf immediately or she will tell my dad and they will all disown me. At the time I was in university studying and the situation got really stressful. After advice from some friendly senior doctors I was on placement with at the time; I lied to my mum and told her that I broke up with my gf just to squash the matter for the time being.

At the time I was financially depending on my parents and was stressing about exams etc. Forward to today. I have started working, earning money and enjoying being financially independent. I live around 3 hours from my parent's and we meet every couple of weeks and speak over the phone weekly. They are now constantly nagging me to get married.

They want to find an Indian girl for me or are asking me to find one myself but she must match their very specific criteria. They do not have any clue about my white gf. I think I am now at the stage where I need to tell them and see how they react. I am very very scared about doing this. I am especially scared of my Dad, he is quite an arrogant, conservative and emotionally manipulating man. He is used to having everything his way and is not willing to change his views.

A part of me feels really guilty for letting my parents down for falling in love with someone I knew they will not accept but a major part of me also knows that I am doing the right thing and interracial couples should be considered normal in brown households. Just want to ask for any opinions or advice? Could I go about this any other way? Thank you. Not what you're looking for? Report 11 months ago 2. Live your life and be happy. Studentlife04 Badges: Report 11 months ago 3. I wish you all the luck in the world. Anonymous 2. Report 11 months ago 4. If they love you, they would want you to be happy.

This girl obviously makes you happy. You're in love with her. Don't break up with her and go with a random girl just to make your parents happy. RogerOxon Badges: Report 11 months ago 5. Original post by Anonymous A part of me feels really guilty for letting my parents down for falling in love with someone I knew they will not accept but a major part of me also knows that I am doing the right thing and interracial couples should be considered normal in brown households.

Anonymous 3. Report 11 months ago 6. Why do your parents care what colour skin your girlfriend How to tell your parents you are dating a white girl Why does she need to be Indian? I understand if they are religious people and prefer you to be with someone with the same faith, but colour of skin or country of origin?

Anonymous 4. Report 11 months ago 7. If your parents interfere then consider limiting the amount of control they have over your life. You are an adult with capacity to make your own decisions. Report 11 months ago 8. You understand the situation best. Your parents are traditionalists who want you to always obey their rules and will disown you if you don't. Presumably their criteria of the ideal wife for you involves nationality, religion, career status, academic qualifications, income and possibly caste. It is a clear choice between what your parents want you to do with your life and what you want to do.

You can only choose one. Your decision will determine whether you are happy, stay with the gf that you love and have the type of future life you want. Good luck! Report 11 months ago 9.

How to tell your parents you are dating a white girl

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